My best friend in the whole wide world Holly was over my house today babysitting off and on all day for me and one of the times I was home we sat down and had a long talk bout why people feel the need to be in a relationship weather it be good or bad and why people are afraid to be single...the reason this came up is Holly jus broke up with her girlfriend and her girlfriend is really having a hard time letting go as on the other hand Holly is really excited and looking forward to being single again. We came up with a whole list of both and i was wondering if people agree with us, if you can come up with some please let me know and Ill add em to the list...
Pros of being in a relationship:
1. You arent alone
2. Sense of security (unless you have an ass for a partner)
3. not having to date again
4. SEX ALL THE TIME ( if youre not married :P)
5. being in love with someone other than yourself
6. having someone love you
thats jus some
Pros of being single:
1. You can date
2. not having to worry bout breaking someones heart
3. You can do whateva you want and not worry bout another person
4. More time for friends
5. having a first kiss with someone else
6. not crying all the time because he/she broke your heart
7. not being paranoid that your ass partner is doing something he/she isnt
8. learning you dont need someone else to define you
Those are jus a few! We had tons more but I dont feel like typing them all out lol nite nite <33333333
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Well.. ALL good points! and I guess there were tons more pros and cons.
Personally, I am the kind of person that doesn't want to let go, if I know things can be fixed, or you know.. I dunno.. lol I DO KNOW but I don't know how to say it.
I fight til the end and i've pissed someone off so much they hate me.. GO ME! Ok, they don't HATE me, they just end up yelling and then I listen!
I think it's hard to give up on something when it's all you've ever wanted, people (including myself) forget that being single can be fun again, but yeah, if you don't wanna be single, you have a hard time becoming single again.
Oh I dunno wtf i'm talking about! IGNORE ME!
I was totally like that with my ex who I was with for years and I just didnt wanna let go, I was afraid of what things would be like without him and *gasps* dating again...omg I would throw up jus thinkin bout it! Once i just let go and realized I was gonna be better without him, I WAS SOOOO and am still HAPPPY! but that could be because I am wacked outta my mind :P <333
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